Dawndollygolden
https://www.reddit.com/r/POIS/comments/ln4lai/female_pois_symptoms/Female POIS Symptoms
I know that women are few and far between on this sub, but as a woman I would like to bring light to some of the symptoms I face with POIS. I have debilitating POIS. One orgasm can trigger up to a month of symptoms that mimic bipolar disorder and premenstrual dysphoric disorder. Abstaining from orgasming is the only cure I've found so far. While practicing abstinence all of these symptoms disappear. But here are the symptoms I find most noticeable.
MENTAL
General brain fog
Decreased ability to stay focused (ADD like symptoms)
Becoming significantly more disorganized
EMOTIONAL
Anxiety
Manic Depression - rapid swings between high risk behaviors (drinking, unprotected sex, drugs) and paralyzing sadness
Irritability
Urges to have angry outbursts
Apathy towards romantic partner
Decreased patience with my child
Suicidal thoughts (usually occurs after multiple orgasms in succession)
Increase of nightmares
Crying- so much nonsensical crying
PHYSICAL
Extreme fatigue
Insomnia
Allergy symptoms
Watery eyes
Sneezing fits
Itchy skin
Runny nose
Increased appetite
Bloating
Back pain
Vaginal odor
Increased vaginal discharge
Acne break outs
Worse menstrual cramps
Increased menstrual bleeding
Weight gain
Increase of yeast infections and bacterial vaginitis
Increase of UTIs
Constipation
Trouble regulating body temperature (especially feet)
Severely decreased libido
Vaginismus symptoms
So far for treatment I have tried Vitamin D, Vitamin C, Caffeine, antihistamines, Kratom. None of these have helped me.
glintglib:
"
I have some questions for you.... Did you have POIS from the first time you started having sex or further along in time? If it is the latter can you tie it in to any substance, drug or other event going on in your life at the time? Have you had your hormone levels tested the day after an O? Hmmm you have increased appetite and weight gain. I have the opposite problem. Yes women are few and far between which has always intrigued me, what is different about those that do. If it is say a gut microbiome issue then women should be just as common as men with POIS."
dawndollygolden:"I can't pinpoint a start date, but I've experienced bipolar symptoms and chronic fatigue ever since I was in high school. I have masterbated since I was 13 (and during my teen years definitely experienced porn addiction- which is my theory on what may have created a hormonal imbalance). I did not actually have sex with a partner until 23, and that sex rarely gets me to an O. After abstaining from masterbating I began to realize I felt like an entirely different person. That made me really begin questioning the source of my chronic fatigue.
I have had blood work done and hormonal levels checked- all were normal. I have not had them checked immediately after an O. I can say that my emotional symptoms were non-existent during my pregnancy, although the physical and mental stayed."