Dont wory muon, we undertend you, at least me do. These tematics is wery complicated.
I personaly newer react hard on forum, because i hawe sewere pois and i konow how frustrurated and dewastated can be.
Ewan when i try to help somewone, i see a lot of frustration sometime. But i know that is because frustation of illnes, ewan peoples with best medical care contrys, cant be cured, and that can be realy frustrurating.