***** refer to diet that cured my pois post... Currently "diet that 100% manages my pois" post.
This post is confusing and it resembles the beginning stages of figuring out my food problem.
****sixth update. Grains and eggs are definitely a no go. Dairy is still pending but I recommend to avoid. Had 5 OS last weekend and another group of O's without symptoms. Did not take anything at all beforehand or afterwards. Just remained on the diet. Head is still very clear.
**fifth update.. Grains,eggs and dairy I must avoid to be POIS free. Head is as clear as ever. Seems like my pois is all related to food intolerances. Check my latest post 3/8/2016
**** fourth update... I cannot tolerate grains. I am having reactions to Brown rice causing inflammation. So right before this I eliminated eggs and dairy (both known to F up your gut) and felt much better, eyes started clearing. Than had a reaction to Brown rice from rice chex (believe it was the Brown rice instead of the bht). So I am most definitely eliminating all grains, milk and eggs. I am leaning towards leaky gut/celiac/inflammational theory of POIS (gluten free is bs for me...all grains have prolamines that irritate your gut and could cause immune reactions, search prolamines on Google). Silent inflammation in your gut spreads when we O. Normally the brain is protected, but after O your brain is compromised and the inflammation from your intestines spreads throughout the body, and especially for my POIS, my brain. I am hoping the eggs and dairy that i stopped consuming (large amounts each day since I went completely grain free) will put any other flames out for the inflammation, causing me to be POIS free again and actually BE ABLE TO SLEEP. I am also hoping I can heal my gut, diminish food intolerances and reintroduce foods since I was never on a true gut healing protocol (involves removal of especially grains and dairy, eggs are bad too). But if I have to remain on the meat and potatoes diet to beat POIS I will. Also for those of you trying this Grain Free diet I've found chickpea pasta to be especially good, supplying much needed carbs and protein. Also white rice and almond milk (coconut milk supposedly better) is good. I will update in the future.
And btw, I had no idea my POIS was caused by this, it took 7 or 8 years for me to associate grain and inflam foods intolerance with POIS. The only way to know is take the food out and see if you feel better. The small intestine is literally the bridge from our body to the outside world. Again I will update and hope my POIS can be resolved... Again.
So to recap, I was grain free, with some Brown rice and almond milk in the summer and was POIS free. Noticed a reaction to brown rice from rice chex and than I went completely grain free, added milk and a lot of eggs in the morning, POIS came back. Added rice chex to sleep, worked a few times but noticed a bad inflammatory reaction again. Than I eliminated Brown rice, all milk and eggs and am in the early stages but have reason to believe I will be POIS free again. Fingers crossed
**** third update.. For some reason I cannot sleep at all on a grain free diet. I've tried adding white rice even after eating lots of potatoes before in the diet and still have trouble sleeping. For some reason after I eat rice chex I can fall asleep. I've tried vitamins as well and they don't work. This almost tells me it's some type of immune problem, possibly my bodies immune system gets distracted with the Brown rice (I'm intolerant to) and allows me to sleep. Very weird. Rice chex is Brown rice and right now I'm doing one bowl in the morning.
*** second update... I am on a complete grain free diet and I don't even eat gluten free versions. Brown rice does cause a reaction so I believe I only can eat white rice as the only grain tho I haven't tried it yet... Head is as clear as ever...I no longer take monolaurin or cats claw tho they probably won't hurt... Read my bio
*** This thread should be that my POIS is 100% manageable as long as I eat as I explain below.
Since the beginning of June I've undergone some experimentation. First, a completely gluten and corn free diet, 2nd Monolaurin, 3rd Cat's Claw. The monolaurin and cat's claw were from my own thoughts of having some other "virus" or something that my body couldn't handle. But I believe the number one cause of my healing was from a gluten free diet. I will go into it here.
First I eliminated all "gluten" from my diet, includes white flour, many other kinds of flour, even sorghum flour (which is in gluten free foods). In fact the only type of "flour" I believe I can have is brown rice flour. To clear that up is I can definitely have brown rice flour, I just am not sure if that is the only one I can have or if there is others I can tolerate. Beware if you buy gluten free foods make sure that you still look at the ingredients. If it says "sorghum flour" as an ingredient, go onto buy another GF food with just brown rice flour. Now this sounds skeptical as a "food" issue but stick with me, I had terrible POIS I believed to be caused by "O" (even though that caused the symptoms, something else caused that problem to happen). I also do not have "gut" issues, didn't get cramps as a celiac or something... It may be all on intolerance meaning you digest it, but it causes other reactions in the blood. I am typing this as if I am writing a note to my younger self, you may not be as intolerant to these or your pois could be completely different. But I am telling you I had 0% thought that food could be possibly causing this issue that was ruining my life.
I also eliminated all corn from my diet. I did this after I had a meal with corn and immediately felt its negative effects on my mind. Corn has a protein very similar to that of gluten and it is very possible to be intolerant or allergic to it. I recently eliminated doritos which is GF but has corn. I noticed it wasn't as bad as having corn itself but was still having negative effects on me. I could probably have doritos once in a while, but it won't be beneficial.
Second is monolaurin. At first when I started taking it every day, it left me almost hyper. It is good for bacteria and viruses which is why I took it. Now I only take it the DAY AFTER I have an orgasm... but I really don't think it is necessary. I usually just take it for my "viral" beliefs but now I don't believe in that as much as I did. I will go into doses at the end.
Third is Cat's Claw. This is a really good immune system stimulator (from what I've read). I usually take it for the same thought that POIS is a "viral" issue which I disbelieve in currently. I also take this the DAY AFTER I have an orgasm.
So why do I think I am cured? After doing this (dosage in last paragraph) I can freely have an orgasm on any day that I choose. I do not even have to take anything beforehand and I don't have to worry about POIS the next day. My only warning is to make sure that if you do take monolaurin and/or cat's claw that it is the NEXT DAY. Because I believe it might cause problems if you take it before orgasm from early results in my experimentation. I began to feel relief and no symptoms probably anywhere from 1-3 weeks into the diet. And now I've been POIS free for 3 months after 8-9 years of POIS agony! I had about 6-7 orgasms last weekend!! no POIS!!
Why do I think this is? I really don't know. Probably an intolerance causing imbalance in neurotransmitters. Or I've even read how gluten and such can mimic a certain neurotransmitter and even replace it for the time being in your brain. I can go on and on but my fingers are getting tired. I also try to eat as best as I should and try not to eat as much candy and ice cream as I used to. I included monolaurin and Cat's Claw because I wanted to put everything that I was doing for the time being even though those two probably aren't necessary. I no longer take Olive Leaf Extract, but occasionally I'll take it the day AFTER orgasm just because I have it hahah.
So Monolaurin and Cat's Claw might make you feel a little hyper and again may not totally be necessary (quite frankly I feel worse taking Monolaurin and Cat's Claw but it still may be beneficial) but here is what I do now:
1) Totally corn and gluten free diet and a better diet (limit candy and ice cream etc.) (info in paragraphs above)
2) 1/4 of a pill of "Ecological Formulas" Monolaurin the day AFTER orgasm (75 mg ingested)
3) 1 pill "GNC" Cat's Claw the day AFTER orgasm (500 mg ingested)
I am 150 pounds
Again, sometimes I even skip on the Monolaurin and Cat's Claw as I believe they are not completely necessary. So I'll be done typing this. Have a good day and hope y'all solve your POIS's.