Can anyone help me on this? I am abstaining now for a month but i feel very wet on the bullocks area and i have sperm leaks all the time and that frustrates me a lot because i continuesly think that POIS symptom will appear and will destroy my day..
Hi Chris 18,
This leakage you've mentioned -- whatever it is -- should be discussed with your physician. It shouldn't be happening (unless you're referring to nocturnal emissions).
Also, sometimes semen (not just sperm) can get mixed in with the urine -- it's called "retrograde ejaculation." It's not an ejaculation in the sense of having an orgasm. It's a medical issue -- where the sperm goes back into the bladder, and then comes out mixed in with the urine.
It happens when the muscle that controls the bladder becomes weakened (antidepressants and other meds can cause this -- it can be a temporary side-effect). Some of the semen goes backwards and gets into the bladder, instead of all of it going
out through the urethra (because the bladder muscle is weak and not completely closed).
So, for example, if a man has this condition, and ejaculates/has a nocturnal emission, semen and sperm will be mixed in with the urine.
A simple urinalysis show if there's sperm in the urine.
You've been abstaining for a whole month (that's a LONG TIME TO ABSTAIN!!), so it's not surprising that you're having some type of semen/sperm leaks.
Definitely mention this leakage to your doctor -- retrograde ejaculation isn't weird or anything (if that's what this is), and is a well-understood condition, especially by urologists. It may be that a medication you're taking is causing this semen leakage. Or it may be that abstaining for so long is causing the leakage.
(***This isn't meant to be a diagnosis, by any means -- I obviously don't know what's going on -- it just sounds a bit like retrograde ejaculation -- or possibly nocturnal emissions.)
As an aside, it's interesting that if this is only semen leakage (without urine), that you're not having POIS symptoms. So -- it may not be semen -- and could be urine.
Please go to the doctor and get a proper evaluation!
Don't be afraid to discuss this with your doctor. Just tell him/her that you've been abstaining because you don't feel well after ejaculating, and now you're getting this leakage.
And then let us know what the doc says!
Stef