Author Topic: after ejaculation / masterbation i have the negative thoughts and depression ??? (Read 17890 times)

sameer7777 · « **on:** May 01, 2011, 05:58:49 PM »

after ejaculation / masterbation i have the negative thoughts and depression

anybody with this affect....
pls guide me
sameer

Vincent M · « **Reply #1 on:** May 01, 2011, 08:26:49 PM »

I don't know what to do about depression. I think the garlic and fenugreek is lessening my depression a tiny bit but I'm not sure. I've definitely been more productive since I've been taking it.

What I usually do when I'm depressed is play a vidgame, watch vids on utoob or other shows online, ect.

adultsim.com has some good shows and funny cartoons on it. Runescape is a fun game to play online for free. And there's a lot of free music and even some full movies on utoob.

sameer7777 · « **Reply #2 on:** May 02, 2011, 12:12:45 PM »

thanks for your reply .....
last night i could not resist and masturbated now i am in depression
my scalp is also very hot and i nearly slept whole day ...... and bad thing is that i am horny again .....
take care

Daveman · « **Reply #3 on:** May 02, 2011, 01:26:19 PM »

With POIS, even completely mentally healthy people can have depressive problems to varying degrees after orgasm. I imagine it would have to be worse for those who may suffer or normally have to treat depressive problems outside of POIS.

Many have tried to aleviate their symptoms with anti-depresants, but they don't seem to provide much releif although each case could be different. Perhaps it would be worth having a doctor perscribe an anti-depressant, and do some tests to see if there is some releif.

emi_b · « **Reply #4 on:** May 02, 2011, 01:37:12 PM »

sameer,

I also have strange sensations in my scalp, and sometimes I have to sleep a lot, among others.
A thing to try is to avoid as much as possible O's. But it is not a definite solution, because what you do with night emissions, even if you don't masturbate.
It seems that dr. Waldinger managed to find a possible cure. Have you sent him an e-mail?.. he said he will sent us his latest articles.
This is his announcement: http://www.thenakedscientists.com/forum/index.php?topic=6576.msg340138#msg340138. He might not respond for some time since he is busy.

You might try have a look at this POIS compendium site: http://sites.google.com/site/poiswebsite/. You might find interesting things there.

emi_b

sameer7777 · « **Reply #5 on:** May 02, 2011, 03:20:36 PM »

very true let me see the links
i like the God thing you said !!!
thanks again

Observer · « **Reply #6 on:** May 02, 2011, 03:22:36 PM »

Quote from: sameer7777 on May 01, 2011, 05:58:49 PM

after ejaculation / masterbation i have the negative thoughts and depression
anybody with this affect....
pls guide me
sameer

Exactly, the same thing was happening to me. I would have never believe that garlic will be a cure for this. But trust me, it was, maybe for a limited time depending the amount you take. The same can be said about fenugreek(Which as I've said works as a preventive method too). Your mind is more focused and those negative thoughts could be "there" but you simply don't take any attention to them--- just like when you are in a good mental health.

JRD · « **Reply #7 on:** May 22, 2011, 04:07:19 AM »

Hello,

is there anybody here who has tried to ejaculate without orgasm, or, reversely, reach orgasm without ejaculation? If so, did you experience POIS symptoms then?

And what about trying to reach orgasm/ejaculation without any mental stimulation, i.e. just to think about non-explicit/non-pornographic things like nature and masturbate till orgasm? There could be some connection between POIS and the intensity of specific brain centers' stimulation.

J.

Vincent M · « **Reply #8 on:** May 22, 2011, 06:32:31 AM »

I know demo was able to achieve orgasm without ejaculation after practice, but it didn't help his POIS at all.

Observer · « **Reply #9 on:** May 22, 2011, 08:53:07 AM »

Quote from: JRD on May 22, 2011, 04:07:19 AM

Hello,

is there anybody here who has tried to ejaculate without orgasm, or, reversely, reach orgasm without ejaculation? If so, did you experience POIS symptoms then?

And what about trying to reach orgasm/ejaculation without any mental stimulation, i.e. just to think about non-explicit/non-pornographic things like nature and masturbate till orgasm? There could be some connection between POIS and the intensity of specific brain centers' stimulation.

J.

I had one day an orgasm while i was dreaming and i just instantly wake up but i didn´t have an ejaculation so i suppose that was a dry orgasm. I didn´t have POIS after this episode.

Samir · « **Reply #10 on:** June 16, 2011, 10:25:39 AM »

Quote from: Observer on May 22, 2011, 08:53:07 AM

I had one day an orgasm while i was dreaming and i just instantly wake up but i didn´t have an ejaculation so i suppose that was a dry orgasm. I didn´t have POIS after this episode.

Interesting. This shows that there's a physical link between ejaculation and POIS for you.

I'm the opposite. I can get aroused and have nothing happen to me, and yet I'll feel my voice change a bit. Recovery is much quicker, maybe a day vs 2wks from POIS, but it's still there.

Samir · « **Reply #11 on:** June 16, 2011, 10:28:12 AM »

Quote from: sameer7777 on May 01, 2011, 05:58:49 PM

after ejaculation / masterbation i have the negative thoughts and depression
anybody with this affect....
pls guide me
sameer

I have had this as well. In fact, I dealt with it for many years in therapy. I thought it was normal.

I believe the general negativity and depression come from a chemical imbalance that's part of POIS brainfog. I've noticed it goes away with POIS going away, so I remind myself of that now when this happens to me.

It's strange that our names are the same and we both run into this--weird!

sameer7777 · « **Reply #12 on:** June 16, 2011, 07:35:05 PM »

yes small world samir ....
are these your pictures ..... its like watching Fast and furious .......

Samir · « **Reply #13 on:** June 16, 2011, 10:42:32 PM »

Quote from: sameer7777 on June 16, 2011, 07:35:05 PM

yes small world samir ....
are these your pictures ..... its like watching Fast and furious .......

The pictures from the other thread--yes, those are mine. In fact, the car from the newest movie Fast Five is 20 minutes away from me. My friend built it. I have a bunch of pictures and videos of it, but I haven't had time or energy to publish them due to a couple of pois episodes.

sameer7777 · « **Reply #14 on:** June 21, 2011, 07:44:26 PM »

pls samir email me some pictures yaar !!

sameer_affandi@yahoo.com

thanks bro !!!!

Samir · « **Reply #15 on:** June 22, 2011, 04:30:58 PM »

Just check out my web site: www.huntsvillecarscene.com

b_jim · « **Reply #16 on:** August 12, 2011, 02:49:35 AM »

I think there is really a problem with serotonin. I think the Pois may cause a trouble with serotonin production.

Do you feel depressed when you have a normal flu ? It's important to compare normal flu to your Pois symptoms.

Some members think they have benefits with Niacin. Niacin may work by helping serotonin production, I'm curently retesting it.

sameer7777 · « **Reply #17 on:** September 01, 2011, 08:47:03 PM »

F after sex my brain gets like this that , i mean even after O , my brain/head feels like it get numb , like the nerves get drain out of blood and oxygen ..... any body feel the same .....
now i am gonna sleep i know i will be bad in the morning , i also will take clonezepam 1 mg , if i want to sleep
its 7 am already , i am crazy , pls GOD help us .....Ameen ....!!!!!

Samir · « **Reply #18 on:** September 29, 2011, 11:47:01 PM »

You really need to stop taking all the various medications and let your body balance itself out. Eating normally and balanced will get you to some sort of stable spot and then you can go from there.

Depression can be countered by eating the right foods. I dealt with cogniative depression for well over a decade, and food is a big part of it. Eating naturally releases 'good feeling' hormones, so eating is important. And if you eat the right things that help your pois, that will help your pois as well.

sameer7777 · « **Reply #19 on:** September 30, 2011, 04:55:07 AM »

Thankyou bro for your reply
I have stop taken all meds I just take Xanax 0.25 for relax
But nothing is helping
It's been 10 days without meds
Can u please explain the diet I should take
Pls guide bro
Thanks a million

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