Hello everyone!
I found this forum at the beginning of this year and after a few weeks of being a passive member I want to share my thoughts about my case and POIS in general as that might be helpful for others.
My story:
I don?t exactly know for how long I have had POIS now. All I can say is, that I tried NoFap at the beginning of 2018 and after a few days I felt like I had superpowers, just as it was promised with doing nofap.
I was discussing this with a few of my friends back then and they never experienced such benefits from abstaining. I reduced masturbating from then on, as I felt it was veery beneficial for me.
2 years later I started dating a girl and after some time we started having sex. That?s when I really felt that there was something wrong with me as my eyes started burning like hell after every time I had an orgasm during sex. I also had the full spectrum of mental symptoms but I didn?t connect them with orgasm back then. After some time of tapping in the dark I found out about POIS by googling and everything made sense! That was about a year ago.
I went to an urulogist who has never heard about the syndrom and said that I need to see an psychologist. So that has not helped at all. Finding this forum was a lot more valuable though. I believe I now know the root cause of my POIS.
Fructose Intolerance/Leaky Gut:
I am pretty sure I am intolerant to fructose. I never really realized I had digestive problems until I read some threads in this forum regarding diet. I?ve had a lot of bloating, gas and sticky/voluminous stool before starting a very low fructose diet. I started this diet around 8 days ago and 2 nights ago I had a noctural emission. And guess what: My symptoms were drastically reduced to what I usually experience during an episode of POIS, even though I have to say that symptoms after NEs in general are less harsh for me then after having sex or M. I realited that I have mild POIS symptoms after earing a lot of refined sugar/fructose. So bloating and (mental) symptoms of POIS are definetly connected in my case.
I believe that because of eating a lot of food that my gut couldn?t handle (fructose, maybe some orger stuff wich I?m not aware of right now) it became leaky. Because of that POIS developed afterwards. The connection might be the vagus nerve.
As I said I started a no/very low- fructose-diet and I will do this for at least another week or two. I will try out how I feel after an O after that time. After that time I will also try to bring back some fructose into my diet and see how I can handle it.
Some other information:
- I also can?t handle sorbit as it makes me very nauseus
- Nicotinamid doesnt work for me at all
- Cetirizin seemed to help a little (maybe placebo)
- Fenugreek gave very little remedy
- When I am thirsty I get VERY angry and agressive until I drink water (is that normal?)
- I started supplementing basically all vitamins + zinc, magnesium, copper, iron, curcumin
Thank you for this forum!
I will keep you updated!