Hey kosmo35, what I'm about to tell you isn't just some fluff. I've dedicated over a year to understanding celibacy, missing out on over 20 streaks just to grasp its essence. Mastering celibacy isn't an overnight feat; it's a journey of trial and error. Trust me, if you slip up or veer off track, you've got to start from square one.
I'm not implying you've wasted two years of your life, but there's a chance you may not have been doing it right. I've approached celibacy with the dedication of a saint, and let me tell you, it's incredibly challenging. It's a path less traveled, especially when there's a pill for every ill. Personally, I've sought natural remedies over medication.
In the initial phase, the first 1-7 days might feel normal, but expect some persistent brain fog for weeks. Gradually, you'll start feeling better, though there might be occasional mental haziness. It's around the one to two-month mark that you'll find stability, provided you strictly adhere to celibacy. The first-timers may even revel in a blissful two to three months, but brace yourself for frustration and aggression thereafter. It's a phase many struggle with, leading to strained relationships and a sense of wasted time. However, if you can manage your emotions and temper, you'll overcome it.
Headaches might rear their ugly head, typically lasting only 2-3 nights, signaling real healing. After a month or two, your sexual desires will resurface. It's crucial not to mistake this for complete recovery and relapse into old habits. It's about disciplining your mind, redirecting desires rather than suppressing them forcibly. Saints understand this art of redirection, and it's crucial to follow suit to avoid anger and frustration.
Remember, not everyone experiences symptoms in the same way. We're all psychologically distinct. While some may masturbate without consequences, it's not a universal truth. Personal experiences vary.
I'm not here for a paycheck; I stumbled upon this forum and shared my journey. It's not just about symptom relief; it's about shortening the recovery period. For instance, my recovery time reduced from over two weeks to just four days after a year of practice.
We're in 2024, where advancements happen daily, but not all solutions are foolproof. Take testosterone injections for POIS, for example. Initially promising, they later proved ineffective and even detrimental, causing infertility in some cases. Similarly, sugar-free alternatives like zero-sugar drinks have their downsides, with links to cancer emerging in research.
My method isn't a quick fix; it's a life-changing journey I've honed over 15 years of experimentation. I'm not urging you to follow suit, just sharing what worked for me. We live on a tiny fraction of this vast planet, and what appears flat and unending isn't necessarily so. The moral here? Perspective is key. Embrace the challenge, and you'll transform not just your POIS but your entire life.