Why on Earth Would You want to Tie a Show Lace Around Your Dick?!

[FloppyBanana]

I feel I should say something like...don't try this at home boys and boys. Anyhow, I have been struggling the last month as I had two nocturnal emissions (NE) which cause me to battle through two cycles of POIS in one month. This is quite unusual for me as it would not normally happen that often. Even though I took progesterone to release most of the symptoms it was an energy zapping experience to some extent. I get grumpy in the afternoon when taking progesterone which I don't like but at least no cognitive impairment. That's the worst part of POIS. Mental flaming meltdown.

So I am now back to tying a shoelace around my dick to prevent nocturnal emissions from happening! Extreme...well extreme conditions necessitate extreme actions perhaps. So I bought some extra fat sports shoelaces and tied various loops the size of my flaccid penis. I just need two loops over the weapon and that prevents me from getting an erection in my sleep. If I do get an erection then I wake up. Sometime I do 10 minutes meditation after waking up with a hard on then go back to sleep.

Through working through the mental torment of the past few weeks I realised something; I really could do without ejaculation in my life. IT'S THAT DAMN SIMPLE!

I have a penis balm as I have mentioned before which means I can ride for hours without shooting. Sexually pleasure for me is not that important for me anymore but I will be happy to give a future partner earth shattering orgasms to help her feel complete in our relationship.

If I could live without ever having an ejaculation in my life again and never have POIS I would take that opportunity. I don't want to do what Animus did(anyone heard from him?). But what I'm thinking is that there must be some sort of way of preventing ejaculation surgically. NO ejaculation No POIS. It seems such good idea at the moment.

For me POIS should be called PEIS (ejaculation) because I have experience orgasms without ejaculation and never had POIS in those instances. You don't get that physical release like you been holding a pee in for too long then letting it all out, however I did get waves of warm current role all over my body which was very pleasant. It only happened to me a few times actually.

There must be someway of cutting a nerve that is responsible for ejaculation. I will get some professional advice out it....I really want to end this nightmare of having a bomb in my bloody underpants (that's what we call under wear for men in the UK). A bloody bomb which fires histamine (or whatever it is?!) up to my brain which then sends my whole body into melt down for a whole damn week. I have really had enough.

In the short term until a safe option is available I will be going to bed with the shoelace on my dick. (how the hell am I going to explain that to my girlfriend when we start sleeping together. Oh it's a special presentation package my darling! Oh sh*t there has got to be a funny side to this craziness. I would not wish POIS upon my worst enemy.

Anyway, rant over! I hope this post can be of use to someone out there. I know NEs when I was younger happened a few times a weeks and it killed me and wish I tried the shoelace when I was 16 years old so I could at least know how put a sentence together be able to do my school work.
FB

[Chris]

Have you considered that a NE can happen without erection ? Because that is the case most of the times with me, I get NE without having erection and happens on the ''peak'' of an erotic dream. I don't think you can avoid a NE when this happens. I then get full erected when I wake up and NE's leave you with a feeling that you have not emptied enough thus forcing you to masturbate AND ejaculate in the short span. Otherwise you 'll get another NE in a short period of time, like after 3 or 4 days and the cycle keeps on and on until there is no choice but to do the BIG thing which is masturbate & ejaculate thus satisfying your body for at least a week or so and then back again, and the party keeps on and on. Hurray! I think you know what I'm talking about FB.

BTW, I like your post. I relate with you. This is a true POISer post and the problems he faces with his life. Cheers, man.

[FloppyBanana]

Hi Chris,

Thanks for your post. I personally have never had wet dream without an erection. What your saying does raise an important point though I believe.

I want to find out about what could possibly be options for surgery. One thing I would like to try is Alpha blockers medication first. I heard you can have an orgasm without ejaculation with them and I would like to know if this would generate POIS for me. I would guess not.

I heard there is "soft muscle" in the prostate which is used to squeeze semen out. Perhaps there could be some sort of surgery that cuts this muscle and renders ejaculation not possible. I really love the sound of that. Sorry I have to say to again...NO EJACULATION...NO POIS.

How can we find out what Animus has been up to and what his quality of life is. I post below the video of Animus which I recently viewed after not having seen it in a year. I am very suspicious of the happy ending painted. I know he has to take a bunch of hormones because he doesn't have a prostate or testicles. I don't get why he didn't have the prostate out then see how that went. Then go for nuts chops after (testicle removal). He took the whole suit out except his pecker in one go.

I also post below a comment which someone posted to the video not long ago. Anyone tried GABA or L-Theanine?? It looks like Picamilon would be perhaps a good way to take GABA because it is a type that cross the blood brain barrier.
FB

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6sdaR18vw1s#t=592


COMMENT:

soulofthebang 4 months ago (edited)
 
They guy made a wrong move having himself castrated. He should of did the POIS Tip Stack:


POIS Tip Stack:

Buy Valerian Root (purchase at Walgreens)

Ask doctor to proscribe you Buspirone (treats mild anxiety. 98% of POIS symptoms are anxiety related)

Now brand of GABA 750 mg and L-Theanine 200mg on eBay. This relaxes the body and if you have semen emission, POIS wouldn't take effect

Go to psychologist or therapist to share past trauma in your life

[Colm]

I know what you are saying here also FB. REAL dilemma. I've had two NE's in the last few months. One with and one without an erection.

One had drastic work consequences for me. The other one (without the erection) gave me the worst POIS cycle I have had in a long time.

I may consider hanging a pair of Nike runners off it and tell the missus that I might be going out for a jog during the night, but don't want to wake her !!!

[Stef]

Floppy, what you've been going through with NEs sounds so awful -- it's such a Catch 22.

For what it's worth, I think the surgical route sounds too drastic...and final. Once it's done, it probably can't be undone, so there'd no turning back for something that might not even work.

Dr. K's research has definitely begun -- you can all absolutely trust this.  Applicants will begin physically participating at his lab very, very soon. (He told Demo that the actual testing will start within the next few weeks!) I'm betting that his study will be followed by other, larger POIS studies. FYI, that is the main hope of a seed grant (pun not intended!). Meaning that Dr. K's seed grant will hopefully "plant the seed" for a larger, more extensive study, which could potentially be financed by private industry (such as Cerbomed, for example).

And while the goal of this first study is to begin to understand what POIS is, there's the chance -- while not the goal -- that the Cerbomed ear stimulator will actually provide relief of symptoms!

So -- please don't cut anything (other than some more extra-fat sport shoe laces).

For the record, I don't think Demo or Daveman have heard from Animus in ages. I remember that Animus had received several judgmental comments -- outright nasty comments -- from forum members. That may have led to his decision to stop posting about his experience.

Colm -- I'm so sorry for your miserable experience with 2 NEs in the past few months. POIS is such an insidious condition. 

But re: the Nike runners --  LOL!!

Stef

 

[demografx]

Dear Stef,

I can't thank you enough for what you have done for our li'l ol' disorder!

I'm sure I'm joined by MANY forumites who think like me.

With much love and respect,

Demo

[FloppyBanana]

Thanks Stef,

Actually I mentioned that I have a new girl friend and that I was not worried because I could have sex and not shoot. Nocturnal emissions is the killer for me. you don't know what's going to happen when you go to bed. So I am actually worried but that doesn't help anyone.

I just want to be in a relationship without POIS. Losing the pleasurable sensation of ejaculation seems like a good trade off at the moment. I have had POIS 26 years!

I'm intelligent (I hope anyone doesn't mind me saying) but when it comes to academic work which I need to do outside of work time, it happens so slow because I have periods when I'm in POIS zombie mode.

My marriage broke down and I thought not being in a relationship would be good for me so I could buy some time to find a solution. Now I have gone and fallen in love with someone (and I think she has fallen for me) 6 months after being separated which really was not planned. I'm worried I could lose her when she finds out I'm actually a part time cripple.

I went home to see my mother last week and I was in a POIS cycle. She could tell how much I was struggling and actually broke down because she was so upset. I don't want anyone to see me like that. She could hear me cracking my neck and back and see that I was unable to function mentally properly.

It would be good if someone could reach out to Animus. You can tell from the video he's a pretty sensitive guy. We should not lose this unique subject out of the POIS group. Really, I believe this is an important point.

I need to do some research on surgery and engage the medical profession. Perhaps with a view to having something done in the next two years. I'm not going rush anything but I can feel the ground crumbling beneath my feet here. Why such pretty young girl fall for me. It feel like beauty and the beast. Except I don't look like one on the outside I'm a damn beast on the inside though. I can clearly see in the past I have lost friends which I didn't need to. The mental pressure from POIS has meant I have cut people off because of my lack of compassion.

If Dr K is about to start scanning people then I expect he has selected the twelve people he needs for the study. That being the case it would be best if this could be confirmed on the forum that anyone who has not been contacted to be part of the study should now know they will not be part of the study. It would really help me because I feel like I am in limbo here. All in its going to cost me $2,000 (flights etc) to be part of the study because I live in the UK. Would you be in a position to feed this back point back to the research team?

FB (potential Animus 2)

[demografx]

I expect he has selected the twelve people he needs for the study.

10 applicants so far have submitted, FB.

Unknown how many of these qualify, but he feels he has enough to start the ball rolling with 2-3!

[Stef]

...If Dr K is about to start scanning people then I expect he has selected the twelve people he needs for the study. That being the case it would be best if this could be confirmed on the forum that anyone who has not been contacted to be part of the study should now know they will not be part of the study. It would really help me because I feel like I am in limbo here. All in its going to cost me $2,000 (flights etc) to be part of the study because I live in the UK. Would you be in a position to feed this back point back to the research team?

FB (potential Animus 2)

Hi, Floppy --

As Demo said, Dr. K has received ~ 10 applications, but it's unknown if any applicants have actually been contacted yet. So there still might be openings -- especially because the study is supposed to include 12 men with POIS.

Also, Dr. K's not choosing on a "first come, first serve" basis. He's got specific criteria for choosing applicants.

As an aside -- to everyone who's applied -- Dr. K  might have requested that none of you post about it. This is only my hunch, but he might not want applicants to discuss the experience with each other until the study is completed...because he wouldn't want one's experience to influence another's.

Floppy, I think you ought to fill out the questionnaires and Fed Ex them to him! Just go for it. You can always back out if you want to, for whatever reason, if you are invited to participate.

FYI,  Dr. K is not giving out any specifics to us at this point  -- which is exactly the way he should and must comport himself. Privacy re: patient information is HUGE in the US.

All the questionnaires and instructions can be found starting at this link -- http://poiscenter.com/forums/index.php?topic=1478.0.

About contacting Animus -- you could try sending him a PM through this forum.  He might be willing to speak with you one-on-one. I hope he's doing wonderfully.

Last but definitely not least -- re: your mom -- my heart goes out to her!


Warmest regards,
Stef

[demografx]

I'm ok lol!!!!

[Stef]

Dear Stef,

I can't thank you enough for what you have done for our li'l ol' disorder!

I'm sure I'm joined by MANY forumites who think like me.

With much love and respect,

Demo

Hi Demo!

I just saw this post.

You're welcome. :-)

Stef

[FloppyBanana]

Floppy, I think you ought to fill out the questionnaires and Fed Ex them to him! Just go for it. You can always back out if you want to, for whatever reason, if you are invited to participate.

About contacting Animus -- you could try sending him a PM through this forum.  He might be willing to speak with you one-on-one. I hope he's doing wonderfully.

Thanks Stef, I sent my application the first day possible by airmail some weeks back!

I have sent a note to Animus just now.

FB

[berhune]

I feel for you, FB.  Your posts strike a chord; I've also committed never to ejaculate, but am often foiled by NEs.  Maybe I'll ask for some shoelaces for Christmas; they'll never (want to) know why!

[FloppyBanana]

Hi berhune,

Thanks for your post. A problem shared is a problem halved! You need to be carful about how small to make those knots! I did the loops too small the other night and gee that was it painful. I couldn't get the damn thing off. I used a budweiser bottle to get the right girth.

Perhaps there is room for innovation. "NE Undies" yep you can see it now. If you could get some sort material like silk that you could create a hood on your penis and fasten to your body somehow I'm sure you would have less risk of waking up with a hard on and garrotting yourself. At the moment in mind they look like those hideous crocodile head type thong underwear you get.

OK now I know what I want Christmas (apart from a Radical prostatectomy) is a silk handkerchief.

FloppyB

[berhune]

Ha ha.  Thanks FB.  One could totally DIY something like that.  I imagine morning wood complicates matters further!

[VSmasher]

I think a rubber band works better than shoe laces. I like to put a rubber band around the shaft and the testicles before I fall asleep.

[FloppyBanana]

Interesting. I would have thought rubber band would pinch the skin. But hey I will give it a shot (or not as the case may be hopefully).

FB

[demografx]

I hope the rubber band works better than this!

[FloppyBanana]

ha ha ha. Well that's what it felt like when it didn't work! Thats a lot of rubber bands.

[VSmasher]

Make sure you shave good before you use the rubber band method. Because hair and rubber bands equals pain. Also, make sure you stretch out the rubber band first so you don't hurt yourself.