quoted from demografx:
Animus, if I may ask...
1. How long did your brutal POIS episodes last in their 'heyday'? They would last from 5 to 7 days. The symptoms would peak I think early on day 2, and gradually fade. On the last day something would "click" inside me and I would feel normal again.
2. Is POIS 'absolutely zero' now for you? (This is part of a larger question that I have of non-POISers, i.e., "Is there truly a 100% Zero-negative-aftereffect possible with orgasm? Or are there SOME - perhaps lasting very briefly - mild postorgasmic symptoms that EVERYONE experiences?") Yes, I have no incidence of POIS anymore. And I have nearly 100% dry ejaculation. The only symptoms I get are the relaxed feeling of wanting a nap. I am actually forgetting now when I have had an orgasm, because there is no trace of it the next day.
3. Do you need to moderate your sexual frequency? That's an interesting question. I do moderate my sexual activity, because part of me doesn't want to push it too much. But I have O'd up to 3x in a week without trouble. Normally I'm at 1 or 2x.
4. Were you prepared for the possibility that your POIS was caused by something ELSE and that the surgeries wouldn't cure your POIS? Or were you rock-solid-confident of semen-causation?
I had a very strong intuition that it was semen-caused because of my experience. I think it's a strong theory that dry-ejaculation & minimizing semen production will stop POIS. Until it's proven no one can be rock-solid confident, but I'm as close to that as possible. Personally, I was very optimistic that it would work- if everything went well... My biggest worry was to lose the ability to have erections and orgasms because of nerve damage, or some complication. I took every precaution to eliminate that risk, but it was still a risk.
But if it didn't work, it would have still have been worth it to me- because I was determined to solve this problem, and I would have eliminated one more theory and been one step closer.