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Robson

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Reality
« on: November 21, 2024, 08:57:24 PM »
Today, I came to the conclusion that this problem we have will not be solved any time soon and that the cure may come after the death of many who are here on this forum, including me.

After everything I have done for myself and always believing that I would find a definitive cure, I understood that it is not going to get anywhere. This is a life sentence!

Now, recently, I began to realize that the problem with P.O.I.S is in the pineal gland (amygdala).

The big problem may be that it works much more slowly after orgasm and certainly takes a long time to give the command to produce some hormones and substances such as taurine.

I don't know about others, but in me, I believe that what caused this to happen was that I lived my whole life constantly stressed and always on the alert for danger with constant anxiety and this made me take it all out on masturbation.

But, that is a story for another episode!

I just want to say that because the problem is in the pineal gland and science doesn't know much about it, we certainly won't find a definitive cure for all of this any time soon.
Hopefully, yes, but unfortunately, today reality hit me like a fall on concrete!
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demografx

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Re: Reality
« Reply #1 on: November 21, 2024, 09:01:47 PM »

…[POIS] will not be solved any time soon and…the cure may come after the death of many who are here on this forum, including me…


Robson, sad but probably true.

I was here at the start of our predecessor forum in 2007, and now I’m age 78 & still waiting! :(
« Last Edit: November 21, 2024, 11:04:30 PM by demografx »
10 years of significant POIS-reduction, treatment consisting of daily (365 days/year) testosterone patches.

TRT must be checked out carefully with your doctor due to fertility, cardiac and other risks.

40+ years of severe 4-days-POIS, married, raised a family, started/ran a business

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Re: Reality
« Reply #2 on: November 23, 2024, 05:51:57 PM »

…[POIS] will not be solved any time soon and…the cure may come after the death of many who are here on this forum, including me…


Robson, sad but probably true.

I was here at the start of our predecessor forum in 2007, and now I’m age 78 & still waiting! :(

But!!!!……
10 years of significant POIS-reduction, treatment consisting of daily (365 days/year) testosterone patches.

TRT must be checked out carefully with your doctor due to fertility, cardiac and other risks.

40+ years of severe 4-days-POIS, married, raised a family, started/ran a business

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Re: Reality
« Reply #3 on: November 27, 2024, 04:54:05 AM »
I came to the same realization two years ago. I was quite sad at first, but then kept reminding myself that we are humans, we adapt with whatever card we're dealt with. And POIS is the card we're dealt with in life.
I started to think of it as an extra limb of my body, something I'll live with and take to my grave. Thus I adjusted my entire outlook of life accordingly. Kept my expectations in check, abandoned any grand ambitions and dreams I would've accomplished had I been cured. And focused just on how to lead a balanced life to get the most joy out of it.

Abandoning is a harsh word, but I seen many people like Quantum in this forum who despite the worst that come out of pois, you can come out of it just fine. You'll just have to live with whatever treatments work for you. Some took 5 years, others took 10 or 20 or even 30. These guys fill me with inspiration that at the end of this road, a balanced life is waiting for me. Yeah it is not perfect, but it's the card we're dealt with.

Only after reaching the balanced life goal I might think of chasing any grand ambitions or dreams left, where POIS wouldn't affect me emotionally that much.

Thanks to this mindset, I can now focus more on treatments accurately instead of the cure.

In the past I would abandon the experiments quickly even if the treatment works partially, because I was so obsessed in the idea of CURE that I would dismiss anything else. But now that I put the idea of a 'CURE' is out of the picture, I can focus, analyze, and execute experiments more thoughtfully and come out with actual results. My mindset right now is more of a "If I mix treatment A that worked and treatment B then C, it might lead me to a balanced life where I choose the RIGHT time for me to suffer the symptoms, and recover from them as fast as possible", instead of the mindset of "if this treatment doesn't cure me, I willl abandon all hope."
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