I am sorry about your dad. But also in blood pressure we differ, some have a bit low BP, others have too high. I always thought I have high BP because I am sometimes in a stressed my mind, particulary when in POIS. So I let a doctor chevk my BP, but it turned out to be on the low side. It sounds weird but I hoped that my BP would be a bit higher because I want to get rid of my hot flushes. Clonidine helps, but it brings BP down. So I do not think my doctor will give me this medicine.