Okay so this might be a little 'out there' for some of you. But if you're like me, you're willing to try just about anything to get this under control. So after trying everything, and I mean everything to fix this, I think I found the answer. I'll start by saying I'm the least 'new-age' guy that exists. I don't really buy any of that stuff, well, until the other day. If you are willing to try anything, give this a try. I tried this after I read a post on here of someone saying that fixed their pois through sex therapy and meditation.
I believe I'm having a 'Kundalini' awakening experience. My POIS was brought on after finding no fap, and having good weeks of abstinence, and then 'relapsing' and feeling like shit. It got to a point where I feel like I was hit by a bus after an orgasm. This 'experience', is not the only explanation for what is happening, but I feel that it is true.
Kundalini is, from what I understand, the life force energy that runs through the body. When I was messing with semen retention, I believe I was having what they call an awakening experience. I had pure manic energy running through me. Insane creativity and energy. And then I would orgasm, and it would all be gone. I would go in the opposite direction as far as possible, pure depression and pain. I believe I using the kundalini energy but wasn't really well equipped to use it. Many described weird, distressing, and painful symptoms when having 'the awakening' and I really think that's what's going on.
Yesterday I was feeling super depressed after like 4 days of ejaculating in a row. I sat with my breath and chanted mantras with each breath in and out. "It's okay to orgasm, I'm healthy, I'm okay the way I am, it's okay to feel pain." Stuff along those lines. I REALLY suggest you guys try this. Even, if you still feel like shit afterwords. The "It's okay to orgasm, it's okay to feel pain" awoke something in me. I suddenly felt this pure healing energy at the base of my spine. I started to move this energy upwards until it hit my chest and it felt like a full body orgasm. This is what they call 'the awakening'. The energy is growing within you and you are aware of it. I honestly felt like I was halfway to enlightenment.
I suddenly had massive insight and understanding. I felt it was okay to feel this pain. I felt that everything in my life had brought me to this point. I felt that there is healing energy in me that is going to help. I was still depressed and in pain, but I felt everything was going to be okay. I feel okay with things now. I felt a peace the day after and orgasm that I have not ever felt since I first experienced this. I used to think I had this illness because I was too sensitive and I was ashamed of it. Now, I feel I had this because I was spiritually sensitive, and you probably are too! Not everyone is like me, but give it a try.
Look into this guy on how to awaken the energy within you:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AsljHhIWT0k&ab_channel=SexualKungFuI suggest you all look into Kundalini, and try to move that energy in your body. It can be a scary and distressing process, which is what I believe POIS is, but if you work with it and surrender to it, you can know great peace. You have to really be careful with this because they say you can go into psychosis if you're not ready. So, be careful but give it a try. What have you got to lose.
I believe pois is what science would call 'psychosomatic'. I'm not saying you don't experience real, biological processes after an orgasm, but symptoms like this can come from the mind. The belief I had that 'orgasms are not safe, pleasure is bad, and I'm not okay unless I abstain", are deeply ingrained into my brain. If you can unhook from those ideas, through, meditation, you can feel peace. The answer isn't in supplements, pills, etc. Those can help for sure, but a lot of this is a 'spiritual' crisis. I still have the engrained beliefs that orgasms are unsafe and dangerous, so this is going to take a good amount of work to heal. We are spiritually sensitive people, and we have to do our best to give our bodies what they need.
Good luck!
