Hi Stef,
Thanks for your reply.
I think your ideas above are very true and are definitely one element of why depression has kicked in at extreme levels on "some" vacations.
I'm also a long time married and am lucky to have two healthy children, now in their teens.
Without doubt, some of the holidays (such as you describe), like hot sunshine destinations (while other family like them) cause me a lot of problems due to sun aggravated dematitis and heightened sensitivity to sunlight. So, while there are types of vacations I have been on that don't elicit as much depression, as quickly, I think there is perhaps a vagal or neurological element to this, or dopamine/seretonin elements. I haven't taken any meds over decades for this, as am choosing a balanced lifestyle, nutritional, exercise, mind/body approach to wellness.
I do think that on this occasion, due to nutritional strategy for the last year, that this year was actually 20/30 PC better (less speedy descent into a depressed state).
Appreciate your honest sharing and maybe Iceland or Greenland are our best destinations for R&R!
Also, I reslize I'm lucky to go on vacation but do have the memory of many years I couldn't do anything, due to depths of POIS in my 20's particularly. Am sure there's loads of guys here who don't or can't go on vacation, cause they are struggling to hold down a job. I know of this phase too.
Nice one outsider on the Paris/Mexico swop btw LOL !