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Labyrinth

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Is it a message !
« on: August 16, 2014, 07:12:38 PM »
Hello guys , excuse me for this thread it is kinda of long and  out of zone of finding treatment for pois syndrome , in fact am pois sufferer exactly like u all and I belief most of us (and me the top of you)  used to watch porn and  masturbate so many times in early puberty
After speculating ,experiencing and sharing with u guys histories of POIS syndrome and  how this syndrome can disturb life of a human being to a bad extinct , I think we all believe it is an evil phenomenon or evil illness and many of us says it is hellish and it is really hellish .
Am a medical student in one of gulf countries and incorrelation with all the things we have studied in medicine i find the medical science and many of doctors fail to find a strong and proven theory of the pathophysiology of such illness , and for me as medical student I didn?t came a cross any similar aoutoimmune condition (that start in one organ and manifest itself in another organ (brain) ), and how there is reaction upon ejaculation of semen although there is a thick barrier in the whole urinary system. the etiology of this disease might be genetic or a combination of multifactories  that plays in your  brain chemicals and disturb your chemical balance , I believe it is aoutimmune thing  but it doesn?t make sense  and have never came a cross any similar condition , what I want to say is this illness is viperous and is created for wisedome not a rubbish thing.
but why we didn?t ask ourselves why me ? not someone else (like why my brother didn?t get afflicted ) why certain individuals !! in my opinion and correct me please if am wrong , intelligent persons only get this problem , intelligent person whom their mind and IQ are high enough to surf in the web and read researches ,read scientific articles try to find a pathophysiology of illness by speculating and trying link things together  . For example many of us are not medical students but they are clever enough to try to find out the relation between brain neurotransmitters and allergy or whatever. what I have seen in this forum so far is a creativity that wont be found in sick or ill individuals we are not diseased but afflicted  ,and  what am saying is that there is a clear message for us who are afflicted with this syndrome and that what we are going through now is wrong and we have to review our way of thinking , what is a real bad phenomenon now is not the pois itself it is the the increasing rate of watching porn and abnormal sexual behaviour  throughout the last century  and the evolution of abnormal sexual behavior(masturbations) that wasn?t existed in the previous centuiries. It is occurrence of this  behaviours is what lead to  certain syndromes like this to show up . (it is a message for me first and all poisers )   if we could stop watching porn and as far as possible stop  masturbation we by help of Allah (our God)  who created us and know specifically  what is the whole problem with pois, we can reach a key solution . it is fairly apparent that a certain power is controlling the human being and his brain .And logically if u found a malfunctioning device u have to discuss the problem with the manufacturer . and who is our manufacturer !! no one except the lord
am not trying to influence any body with my religious view but I really feel it is something has to do with religion cause there are many verses in the bible and qurran which completely prohibit things that approach adultery ! ( "And come not near unto adultery. for it is a shameful (deed) and an evil, opening the road (to other evils") - a translated verse from qurran- . And there are other evidence in Islamic religion that prohibit masturbation and says it creates path and environment  for sickness either organic or psychiatric to thrive in the body .
am sorry for the religious attitude and I know it is not suitable place to share such things but I really want to help myself and you all . and I think we will never find a treatment for this affliction unless we changed our behavior to a better pure one .and I know my English is not that good but I hope the idea have reached the minds and thanks may youall be blessed .
POIS of 10 yrs now

Jimmy

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Re: Is it a message !
« Reply #1 on: August 16, 2014, 10:41:00 PM »
Thanks Labyrinth for your words,

I understand your point view as I'm arabic muslim. But I think the scenario with POIS is more than that as it also affects even the ones who are doing normal sexual activities. If you read through this forum, you will see that there are many get POIS just after having normal sexual orgasm ( with a wife).

For me, I'm still single and POIS happens after masturbaition. And I'm really afraid to enter in any relationship.

Moreover I would like to add that there are many others experience masturbaition an watch porn but don't suffer from this illness. I really hope that we all can find clear explanation about what is going on.

G-man

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Re: Is it a message !
« Reply #2 on: August 17, 2014, 04:44:16 AM »
POIS is a reaction that effects the entire body.
There are two pathways in which organs can send messages to each other. One is in the blood via hormones and the other is in the nervous system via neurons. Many of us have had extensive blood work done, with no signs of abnormalities.
This would suggest that POIS is a reaction that involves the nervous system.
We will soon have a better understanding of this condition with the help of the researchers and their fMRI machine.

LegatoMan

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Re: Is it a message !
« Reply #3 on: August 17, 2014, 02:27:34 PM »
Labyrinth,

You cannot say that masturbation is evil ... Believe me, POIS has mentally scarred me to the point where I really *do* associate masturbation with evil. Bad fortune always befalls me when I do it!

But the fact is, men are naturally imbued with a high sex drive, which is very difficult to control. This very sex drive is the reason why so many women are raped, every day, in this world. So if a man decides to masturbate, instead of rape a woman, wouldn't you say that it is a good thing? It is a way for a man to take responsibility for his own sex drive.

Also, I would advise you not to divide the world into "intelligent" and "stupid" people. There is no such thing. And if POIS is a message from God, believe me, I would love to ask our creator WHY this is happening. I have prayed many times for an answer. But still, I have found nothing yet.
Affected since Sept 2008. Very gradual onset of symptoms: Testicular atrophy, low libido, brain fog, lethargy, depression, digestion issues. Worsening of all symptoms the 3-4 days post orgasm.

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Re: Is it a message !
« Reply #4 on: September 25, 2014, 03:14:17 PM »
i wonder if POIS is related to a heavy masturbating-past.

i fapped very much in my youth and the POIS syndroms werent there right from the start. they developed over time.

maybe POIS wasnt a problem for people in the past, because there was no high speed internet porn which let you see more women in 5 minutes than a regular man back then has seen in his entire life.

iam just saying, that it is not 'evolutionary'-behaviour to squeeze one out every few days (or couple of times a day).

some cultures on earth dont know what masturbation or contraception is. that means that you intercourse mainly or only for childs and the human body is perfectly capable of having not much or no sex during lifetime.

the desire for endless porn or real sex is rooted in our mind. thats the place where one must fight it. the mind can be changed to anything you want. monks can burn themself to death without shrug. the mind is very strong and the sex-drive is the lowest expression of energy.